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Christian Living

Discipleship Doesn’t Occur In a Vacuum. It Requires the Help of Others.

Discipleship does not occur in a vacuum. If you want to see radical growth in your Christian life, you have to surround yourself with others who will disciple you to more maturity. Can growth occur without others? Perhaps. But that would be rare. Even the Gideon Bible in the hotel room that you pick up to read by yourself was placed there for you by someone else who cares about your walk with Christ. The plan of God is for us to teach Jesus’ commands to one another. One of the best ways to accomplish this is in a group that meets with transparency and accountability to sharpen one another’s Christian walk.

picture of a person potting a plant symbolizing the need to plant ourselves in a place for maximum growth. Discipleship doesn't occur in a vacuum.
Have You Planted Yourself In A Place For Maximum Growth?

Robby Gallaty:
By yourself, you are incapable of producing spiritual fruit, but you can plant yourself in a position to experience it. That’s the value of being in a group where you are intentionally pursuing Christ with other believers, what I’m calling a D-Group. Discipleship is more than a weekly group gathering, but never less.

And this isn’t a new concept:

Around 30 A.D., Jesus walked with the 12. They were disciples. Jesus was the disciple-maker.

About 60 A.D., we read in 2 Timothy 2:2 that Paul had discipled Timothy and challenged Timothy to do the same with others.

Robbie Gallaty points out that around 400 A.D., Augustine’s preaching indicated the need for groups and that such groups would be a means of unity, a method of spiritual growth, and would develop healthy Christian friendship.

In the 1600s, Phillip Jacob Spener established what he called “gatherings for piety.” Gallaty states, “Going against the Catholic practice of one-on-one confession to a priest, Spener insisted that truths learned from Scripture are meant to be lived out in a community. Spener despised individualism, claiming that ‘it acted like a medicine which was more dangerous than the disease it was supposed to cure.'”

And in the 1700s, we find John Wesley developing and encouraging discipleship groups as well.

All this simply to say that groups matter. Disciple groups were important in the past. And they are still important today. You need to find a group. If there isn’t one for you to jump into, then you need to pray that God would put some people in your mind to start a group with. And then get them together to start meeting and growing!

Gallaty provides encouragement regarding this:

Start a discipleship group. I know that seems obvious, but at some point you actually need to get started. You can begin investing today. If you are a man, find a group of men to disciple. If you are a woman, gather several women together. It’s challenging to take someone on a journey you have never been on yourself, but it’s not impossible. You don’t need another Bible study to get ready for this. Take the Bible you already know and study it with two or three other people weekly.

And if you need more help getting in a group or starting one, let me know. I would be happy to provide you with the tools that we use at FBC Newton to get a group off the ground!

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Christian Living

Be a Signpost For Jesus at Work, Home, and Play

As a signpost pointing to Jesus, we also need to have a walk that imitates Jesus. To make that happen, Jesus invites us into a relationship with Him. And that should change how we live and how we play and how we work.

Bill Hull:

    I am to live as though Jesus is living in me. If Jesus were a plumber, what kind of plumber would He be? If He were an attorney, what kind of attorney would He be? If He were an accountant, teacher, business owner, what kind of person would He be?

a blank wooden sign symbolizing the need for our lives to point toward Jesus
In What Direction Is Your Signpost Pointed?

Robby Gallaty:

          Discipleship has an end goal: to be conformed into the image of Christ—to talk the way he talked, walk the way he walked, and respond the way he responded. It begins with an unshakeable allegiance to Jesus…
          To make disciples effectively, we must first recognize that a disciple is one who is pursued by Christ, has been found and called by him, and has made the decision to follow him. As a disciple-maker, all you’re doing is pointing at the One you’re following and saying to those around you, “Come with me; I’m following him.”

We are each to be a signpost pointing to Jesus.
Is your signage clear or is it confusing?
Are you telling the people around you, “Come with me; I’m following Jesus”?
Who in your life has been needing to hear that statement from you?

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Christian Living

Elimination: The Skill of Eliminating Distractions is Important

The Skill of Elimination – removing the things from your life that are negatively affecting your spiritual growth.

(And again, Facebook automation now only provides an excerpt, and so those FBers who want the full article will have to follow the link to my website. The best alternative would be to sign up for the email which sends the full article directly to your inbox. You can do that by clicking here.

photo of erasers to remind us use the skill of elimination
What Do You Need To Erase From Your Life?

Now back to the skill of elimination.

Continuing with the idea of the last few posts on discipleship, I want to remind you that Discipleship & Disciple-Making are key commands of Jesus.

You know that the 2 Greatest Commandments are:
    1. Love God with all you have, and
    2. Love others as yourself.

The way we are to accomplish these 2 commands is through obedience to the Great Commission, which Jesus stated as: “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you.”

Therefore, if this is Jesus’ Commission to us, then we each need to have an answer for how we are obeying it. We should be able to answer these two questions:
    Who is discipling me? and
    Who am I discipling?

Who is intentionally helping you to grow in love and obedience to Jesus?
Who are you intentionally helping to do the same?

In Robby Gallaty’s book, Rediscovering Discipleship, he shares a quote from Antoine de Saint-Exupéry:
“Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.”

Gallaty goes on to say that this kind of evaluation is very difficult because it removes what you want and reveals what God wants. And we know that God wants us to be discipled and be discipling others. Therefore, this means that some of us may need to think seriously about eliminating some activities in our lives so that we can experience the very best that Jesus wants for us.

We need to develop the skill of elimination and continually ask ourselves:
What do I need to eliminate from my life to be obedient to Jesus in the area of being discipled and being a disciple-maker?

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Ramblings

Errors and Minor Inconveniences: I Apologize

As often happens in life, I find that things are not quite as easy as I had hoped. In re-starting my posts, some things have changed with the tools I use to publish posts. I fixed the error that occurred with my email recipients, but in a similar way, Facebook is now only giving an excerpt and a link, not the full article like it used to do. I’m looking for a fix, but until I find one, it means that any Facebook followers who want to see the full article will have to follow the link to my website. I apologize for the inconvenience! The best alternative if you want to get the full article without having to follow the link would be to sign up for the email which sends the full article directly to your inbox. You can do that by clicking here.

And if you have been on this journey with me for the past few years, you are probably asking yourself: when will his posting taper off? Will it be in one week or two? You may be surprised! You’ll get at least 52 this year, and here’s how I know for sure…

While I have had some difficulty in the past finding time to post regularly, this year I decided I would not post anything until I got at least 52 posts ready! And so that’s what I did. I plan to send out two a week (on Tuesdays and Thursdays), which will take us through one-half of the year.

When did I find time to put together 52 posts at once? Well, it was during my sinus infection that kept me at home for several days around Christmas. (And yes, I did write many of them while on medicine! I tell you this so you can give me some grace on the weird ones!) If we get to the end of 52 posts and then they suddenly stop, then just pray that I get another sinus infection to crank out another set! Just kidding – please don’t pray that for anybody!

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Prayer

Transparency – Where Do You Need the Most Prayer Right Now?

In my previous post, I mentioned to you that our Disciple-Groups started with personal prayer needs and that doing so required transparency on our part.
image of man kneeling in prayer - reminding us also of our need for transparency
Even so, sometimes we don’t quite know where to start. Therefore, we use the following guide to help us share personal prayer needs.

The reason I’m sharing them with you, is that these are not just good for giving others information on how to pray for you, but it can also give you guidance on how to pray for yourself. Read through them one time, and then go back through them praying for each one that applies to your life.

For which of these items do you need the most prayer right now?
     a. Your relationship with God?
             i. Personal Daily Bible Reading
             ii. Personal Prayer Life
             iii. Personal Purity

     b. Your relationship with your spouse?
             i. Face-to-Face Time together
             ii. Prayer/devotional time together (other than meals & family devotions)

     c. Your relationship with your children?
             i. Prayer/devotional time together (other than meals)
             ii. Walking and talking time together

     d. Your relationship with your coworkers?
             i. Workplace Pastor Role
             ii. Planting Seeds of the Gospel to those who work around you

We also ask that each person will share how God is leading them, and the following questions can help provide you ways to answer. These can provide you with additional guidance on how to pray for yourself, and how to ask others to pray for you.How would you answer each one?
     a. What good habit or character trait do you feel God wants to form in your life?
        And how have you taken specific steps to develop that habit?
     b. How are you leading your family to be closer to the Lord?
     c. As a “workplace pastor,” how are you leading your coworkers to be closer to the Lord?
     d. What is God presently telling you to do & what are you doing about it?
     e. How have you turned a conversation toward Christ since our last meeting?
     f. How has the Bible shaped the way you think and live since our last meeting?
     g. What opportunities did God give you to serve others since our last meeting?
     h. How have you received a specific answer to a prayer since our last meeting?

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