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How You Handle Winning and Losing Speaks Volumes

Yes, we’ve all been there…watching someone win poorly…
         …and watching someone lose poorly.
And it can be miserable to watch either one!

That is why a few cities have posted signs like this one…
a sign at a city park reminding parents how to behave regarding losing and proper behavior

Ha! I love this sign.
And we know it is needed because we all know “that parent” who needs reminders of how to handle himself (or herself) at the ballfield.
         In fact you might even be “that parent!”

The sign is a clear reminder that our behavior speaks volumes to those around us. And here is the spiritual truth that we can connect to this ballfield sign:
          “How we handle loss shows where our treasure is.”

And not just loss in a little-league ballgame, but real loss in life… loss of a job, loss of health, loss of a relationship, or the death of someone close to you. How you deal with these real losses in life – with real losing – it speaks volumes about where your treasure is. John Piper explains the idea more fully:

“What I know even more surely is that the greatest joy in God comes from giving his gifts away, not in hoarding them for ourselves. It is good to work and have. It is better to work and have in order to give. God’s glory shines more brightly when he satisfies us in times of loss than when he provides for us in times of plenty.

The health, wealth, and prosperity “gospel” swallows up the beauty of Christ in the beauty of his gifts and turns the gifts into idols. The world is not impressed when Christians get rich and say thanks to God. They are impressed when God is so satisfying that we give our riches away for Christ’s sake and count it gain.

No one ever said that they learned their deepest lessons of life, or had their sweetest encounters with God, on the sunny days. People go deep with God when the drought comes. That is the way God designed it. Christ aims to be magnified in life most clearly by the way we experience him in our losses.

Paul is our example: “We were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on ourselves but on God who raises the dead” (2 Corinthians 1:8-9). The design of Paul’s suffering was to make radically clear for his own soul, and for ours, that God and God alone is the only treasure who lasts.

When everything in life is stripped away except God, and we trust him more because of it, this is gain, and he is glorified.”

I pray that we will trust God and keep Him as our greatest Treasure in the midst of losing any and all other things.

— brian rushing

         (Quotes in today’s post are from Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper)

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The Beauty of God In The Midst of Danger, Tragedy, and Pain

Here in America, we are relatively safe.
We are fairly comfortable.
Life is often pretty easy.
We find ourselves free from many dangers.
And we thank God for this safe, comfortable, easy life.hammock on the beach signifying a life of comfort and no danger

And yet, Jesus didn’t come to this earth to make our lives comfortable and safe. It is extremely hard for us to remove from our minds this notion that God came to make life easy. Here in America – this land of plenty – we have so much. We know that God has blessed us. But why has He blessed us? Is it so we can gather up more and more of His blessings so that we feel more safe and more comfortable? Is it to keep us free from danger, tragedy, and pain?

Hmmmm…. That does not seem to be the way that the disciples lived. Instead, they lived radical lives for the gospel, not focused on their own safety and blessing, but rather on sharing the message of Jesus in the midst of danger and at the cost of their very lives. It was a dangerous calling that caused beatings, pain, suffering – and they rejoiced in the midst ofthis dangerous calling.

They had discovered that Jesus’ “beauty shines most brightly when He is treasured above wealth, above health, and above life itself.”

They realized that “if we can learn to enjoy Christ and magnify Him even in the midst of pain and suffering, we show the world where our true love lies.”

Some of us might say, “But I am ready to die for Christ if it came down to that.” That may be true, but though we might be willing to die for Christ, the question is whether we will choose to live dangerously for Him?

“Some of us would be willing to die for Christ, the question is: are we willing to live for Him, suffer for Him, and magnify Him with our lives…. What we are willing to die for shows our belief, but what we are willing to live for and suffer for shows our radical commitment to our beliefs.”

We must love Christ above His blessings. We must love Him above our comfort. We must love Him above our safety and life of ease. We must value Him above the American Dream that we often find ourselves chasing.

To help understand this even more fully, click on this link to watch an excellent 2.5 minute video on the difference between the prosperity gospel and loving Christ in the midst of suffering.
            youtube.com video – the prosperity gospel

“What you love determines what you feel shame about. If you love for others to applaud you, you will feel shame when they don’t, but if you love for men to make much of Christ you will feel shame when His name is belittled on your account.”

(quotes by Jon Piper in Don’t Waste Your Life)